- People often keep a mental Rolodex of those who have insulted them in the workplace.
- Humiliations are common in the office and feeling vengeful is a natural way to repair wounded vanity.
- Psychotherapist Naomi Shragai warns that dividing the world into friends and enemies can be damaging.
- Some fantasize revenge but it's best to draw the line at obsession.
- Karmic payback can be delivered by someone else they've crossed.
Why I keep an inventory of workplace beastliness
Holding a grudge is essential to surviving the humiliations of office life
